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Tagged by the charming Pocket to reveal five things I am obsessed about.  This is not easy.

I’m going to tag tyger and lovely nmj anyway.

I’m not the sort to get obsessed about things – at least not for long. I got obsessed by Johnny Cash’s version of “One” for a week or two, and listened to little else, but then that passes (as discussed here).   I get obsessed with tennis when the big tournaments are on, especially Wimbledon, not because it’s the best tennis (quite the contrary) but because it’s a nostalgic fixture my personal calendar.

Here goes then, but remember, it’s a moving target, MrZ is, as Paul Weller taught us, a changing man.  Though Weller probably wasn’t talking about me when he sang that.

  1. My children.  I have two amazing daughters who are the most lovely and wonderful things in the world, although they also whine quite a lot, which can get annoying – and I have to admit that, despite them being the sweetest little things known to man or beast, I am getting very fucking bored of “Balamory” - and, believe me, if I met that stupid pink dinosaur Barney and his absurd pals (BJ and Baby Bop) I think I might have to administer a serious slapping.
  2. Women.  If Bindi can be obsessed with young men, I can be obsessed with women.  I think this might be my midlife crisis coming on early because I never used to be like this.  I should say that this obsession is not entirely creepy and sordid – though of course it mainly is – I am predominantly attracted to women’s intelligence and wit: it truly amazes me that such brains, humour and beauty can exist within a single human being.  They never cease to impress me. 
  3. Music.  I still harbour bizarre dreams of playing in a band.  This is bizarre because I cannot really play anything – and a certain amount of musical ability is a prerequisite these days, this isn’t the sixties.  I used to play in a band, I was 15 or 16 or something and I was terrible on the bass while my friends played on and ignored me.  I used to finish a few seconds after they did – AND I WAS SUPPOSED TO BE KEEPING THE RHYTHM.  They had a point – my pedestrian plodding bass would have killed the song.  I still play some songs very loud in the car and imagine I’m in the band.
  4. Books.  I love reading, it’s got such a personal and private element to it.  You can go anywhere with a book and you’ve got yourself a pocket pal for those quiet moments.  I don’t just love reading though, I love learning, and I love books themselves.  I actually take pleasure from owning shelves and shelves of books.  This is not like me, I am not usually materialistic.
  5. Thinking.  I adore quiet alone time where distractions are minimal and I can open up my brain and let loose with all sorts of random thinking chains.  Driving is especially good for this, and I often have to cease use of my Posh iPod in order to reveal valuable thinking space.

Gosh.  That’ll do.

Written by MrZhisou

12 April, 2007 at 2:44 pm

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  1. Hei Mr Grockular Z, these are fine obsessions. They have my seal of approval, you sordid creep. If a woman is intelligent and funny, does it matter if she’s not beautiful?

    just asking.

    Anna MR

    12 April, 2007 at 2:48 pm

  2. Anna, it’s never as simple as that, it’s a whole package – certainly many women can be achingly attractive and not be beautiful, this is quite usual in my experience.

    People think I have strange tastes. Perhaps it’s partly because i look for, and am attracted to, individuality.

    See, not that creepy really.

    MrZhisou

    12 April, 2007 at 3:31 pm

  3. Let me point out that I *never* called you creepy (well, I did, but you started it). (And in fact, I didn’t – I called you a creep – but again, you fed me the line and thus egged me on.)

    Anna MR

    12 April, 2007 at 9:59 pm

  4. WOW your list is a lot more insightful and thought provoking. Makes mine look like rubbish :)

    thepocket

    13 April, 2007 at 12:33 am

  5. Anna, most impressed how you made it all my fault – typical woman.

    MrZhisou

    13 April, 2007 at 9:03 am

  6. Pocket, thanks, though I forgot to mention soy sauce, I am obsessed by soy sauce, I put it on everything.

    MrZhisou

    13 April, 2007 at 9:04 am

  7. Hello there Zeddie,

    Thanks for the tag I promise I’ll put mine up today/over the weekend.

    I think if I had written your list I would come up with those choices. And there is nothing, may I say nothing, wrong with being obsessed with women. I know, I’m a sordid creep.

    tyger

    13 April, 2007 at 1:07 pm

  8. Ah, tyger, you know me too well. I look forward to your own creepy selection.

    MrZhisou

    13 April, 2007 at 3:06 pm

  9. Hey, more sordid creeps to hang out with. I like it here.

    It *was* your own fault, Grockles, nothing to do with my female talent in twisting facts and rewriting history.

    Anna MR

    13 April, 2007 at 10:17 pm

  10. There you are, MrZhisou opening your chest and your mind to peeping curiosity, I expect you’ve left other traits aside, just to keep an aura of mystery around you?

    Jose

    14 April, 2007 at 7:58 am

  11. Mr Z, you are monstrous to tag me, I hate tags and have only relented once – for Anna MR – but since I am quite obsessive & anxious (they go hand in hand, I think) I may well oblige you one of these days…and I see Aaron, who commented on my blog earlier, is Tyger, I only just realised!

    nmj

    14 April, 2007 at 11:41 am

  12. nmj, my love, you can counter-tag me. I owe you one.

    Anna MR

    14 April, 2007 at 1:32 pm

  13. okay, you’re on, anna mr – i bestow mr z’s tag on me upon you!

    nmj

    14 April, 2007 at 1:45 pm

  14. Anna, okay, I admit it, it was all my fault – typical.

    I should have added green tea too. It is a bit of an obsession really, then I wouldn´t have needed to be so candid.

    1. Soy sauce
    2. Green tea
    3. … er … need to think more

    MrZhisou

    14 April, 2007 at 4:10 pm

  15. Jose, one hopes that this glimpse behind the curtain does not let too much light in on the Z, one would not wish to lose one´s aura of mystery.

    MrZhisou

    14 April, 2007 at 4:10 pm

  16. NMJ, that´s cheating.

    MrZhisou

    14 April, 2007 at 4:11 pm

  17. Lordy, lordy, the pressure, okay, I will do the tag, but it is ‘tag lite’ – I will do it now here, rather than with all the palaver & fanfare that accompanies these tags on ones own blog.

    1. Totti, as in Francesco, captain of recently shamed A.C Roma.

    2. Being anally tidy (when energy allows). I like order even although I seem totally chaotic on the oustide.

    3.Checking switches/gas/anything dangerous is off when I leave the house for an overnight. Has to be done repeatedly. Sometimes 6 times.

    4. I wouldn’t say I’m obsessed, but I love bookshops, & whenever I’m somewhere new I want to find the book shops.

    5. Not obsessed by my wee nephews, but they soak up my love like no one else & I feel so lucky to have them

    Okay, am I off the hook?

    nmj

    14 April, 2007 at 6:14 pm

  18. Very nice. You´re off the hook. I won´t tag you again.

    MrZhisou

    14 April, 2007 at 7:43 pm


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